Kum upa pawl ih an huatmi ṭongkam (6)

Milai lawng si lo, sersiammi zaten sankhuk dam ding zohman kan um lo.

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Na thei, tar thei, thi thei kan si theh. Tuni ah kan nolai nan, ni khatkhat ah kan kum a tam vivo ding ih kan upa vivo lai ding.

Dam ih kan um asile kan tar vivo lai ding ih nutar, patar kan si lai ding.

Curuangah tui, na kiangnaivai ih um na nu le pa maw, na pi le pu maw, asilole na hnakih upa an si hnuhnu cun tongkam sia in na be lo pei!

A hleice in kum upa lam kan nu le pa, pi le pu pawl hin tongkam hman ngaih lomi an nei, cu pawl tla cu:-

1. Zianghman nan thei lo: Santiluan timi hi a thlengaw vivo. Kan nu le pai’ san le tulai santhar tla tam zetin a thlengaw zo.

Cuvek men ruangah na nu le pa kha ‘aa’ tukin hmu hlah la, thu an theihfiang lomi an lo suh tikah, ‘zianghman nan thei cuang lo’ ti men hlah.

A simten sim niakno men aw. An theihfiang lo ruangah mawhthluk ding a um lo, an san le na san a thlauaw tuk, ti kha thei aw. Cu lole an bei a dong pang ding.

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2. Daiten um men aw: Nu le pa, pi le pu hin innsang hrangah ziang simaw, helhkammi an nei cio.

Anmai tuah thei sunsun hna harsa lemlo khi rak tuan an paih zet.

Cuvek caan ah ‘ziangah khavek na rak ti, daiten um men aw’ tivekin kawk lo ding, a si.

Ziangahtile anmai thinlung nomnak dingah umharphen ih thil an rak tuahmi khi fak le lomsak thiam an duh zet.

Annih cu fanau an ruah tuk le mi-law an si cia thawn um-awl hiahhiah ih tikcu hman tla an ning ve theu.

‘Daiten um men aw’ tiih na kawk tam tuk asile santlai loah an ruataw ih thih men tla an duh sawn, ti kha hngilh hlah.

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3. Thu na duh tuk: Kum upa an si ruangah thil hi an cingkeng thei nawn lo.

An theihtheinak an hloh vivo ti kha theihthiamsak in thu an lo suh caan ah maw, thusuh kelan lo suhsal leuhleuh a si hmanah ‘thu na duh tuk, vei ziat lawmmam so ka lo sim zo,’ tivekih kawk hi an hua zet.

Hiti na mawhthluk ringring asile ‘in hmu thei nawn lo’ tiin an tha a nau ding ih an tar vivo phah thei.

4. Na cau lo mawsi?: Nu le pa hin fate hrangah thu thatha fah le barh hi an duh theu.

Anmai cin bantawk thuanthu lole ci le kuang umdan, Pathian thu le nunsimnak lampang hi fate hnenah an sim duh zet.

An umharphen zettu pakhat a si ve ih fate hin an thu el loin rak ngai khiokhisak hi kan tuanvo a si.

‘Na tlok tam tuk, na bang (cau) tuk lo sawm!’ tivekin rak sulh asile an thin a heng duh zet.

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5. Lo sim tla le na fiang cuang lo ding: Kum upa lam pawl hi a tlangpithu thu an duh, an hawkdak ih anmah thawnpehparaw lemlomi khal theih an cak ciamco.

Cuvek caan ah, ‘thu na duh tuk, mah thawn sengaw lomi ah rak hrolhaw duh hlah,’ tivekih sulh hi an hua ngaingai.

A cangtheitawk ih simfiang hi an mamawh zet ruangah thinsauten na nu le pa kha thusim theu aw. Cuti a si lo le nunman nei loah an ruataw ding.

6. Na Hnoksak: Kum upa lam an si nan, fate thil tuahmi ah theihpi, telpi, thazang pek tla an duh.

Cun anaipuannak dingah ziangmaw puai caan, birthday tuah caan le mipi lakah tel khal an duh ve lai.

Cuvek caan ah, ‘tel ve hnuaihni hlah uh, mi nan hnoksak maimai’ tivekih don hi an hua zet.

Cuvek tongkam an theih tikah an riah a sia ih fa le te ih khawvel ah lengtlak nawn loin an hmuaw thlang.

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Hnadaitei’ thi men dingin an thinlung mitthli a tla theu.

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